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HOW TO BE THE BEST, BEST FRIEND EVER!

Be that best friend that everyone is looking for.

Written by Dr. Mister Ed

Saturday May 10, 2008

Most of us have a person you call a "best friend". They are the people we trust most. People who we tell things, that we wouldn't tell anyone else. A person that will always be there for you. Do you have a best friend? Are you someone's best friend? Do you even need a best friend?

Some people don't want a best friend because they are afraid of loosing that friend. So by never having a friend you will not have to go through the grieving process of loosing one. Most of our friends come from the places we attend the most. Work friends, church friends, bar friends, on-line friends, the list goes on and on. Those friends are mostly the basic type of friend. Fun to bullshit with and work with but they are not someone you call a best friend.

A best friend is a person who you confide in and relate with. Most people do not have a best friend. Their lives do not allow time for a best friend. We are to busy to devote time to any relationship. Marriage is probably the main killer of friendships, unless that friend happens to be a best friend of both of you and everyone knows that is a very bad idea. No woman can have a male best friend without eventually having sex with them.

How many of us have lost our friends due to marriage? It's happen to the best of us and it mostly because of jealously. The wife is jealous of you spending so much time with you friends and not enough with her. Or she is always going out with her friends and probably fucking some other guy. Unless you spy on them, you will never know the truth.

A lot of us have what you call "Back stabbing" friends. These are the kind of friends that act like your friend but as soon as you turn your back, they are talking shit about you and doing everything they can to make you look bad to your other friends. This is the kind of friend we all need to surgically from out lives.

The other type of friend is the one who proclaims he or she is your friend but in actuality all they want is to bleed you dry by asking favors, borrowing money and never re-paying, borrowing tools and never returning them. Or in the female world, letting you friend borrow your vibrator and she never returns it. Or when she does, the batteries are dead. I know is I were a woman that would really piss me off and instantly killing a friendship. You bitch!

Friends are basically a good thing to have. Just make sure they are the right kind of friends. It's very hard to find that BEST friend, but if you do, go out of your way to keep and nurture that best friend. A best friend can help you through life's troubles and trials. If you are someone's best friend, make sure you are there for your friend. Give them a call once in a while and let them know you have not forgotten about them and ask them if things are going good. So often we take our friends for advantage, thinking they will be there only if you need them. That is no way to treat a true friend. Be there through thick and thin and you will have a friend for life.

In most cases our spouse is our best friend. This is ok, but it limits you to the potential of what friends outside the marriage can be. Of course this can be a double edged sward because very often when a married couple has friend that are also married, there are times when switching partners or an affair could result and that is a sure fire way to end a good friendship. Everyone needs friends and everyone should have that "Best Friend" they can relate to. Life is just too short to live alone without someone to talk to and be supportive of. Go out and make a friend. You will be glad you did. Maybe.